I've always enjoyed seeing women getting messy, it just built and built until I realised it was a kink of mine and then I went deeper and started buying content and it's just become the standard turn on for me.
For years I never took part in any messy activities myself but recently I have been enjoying gunging myself, and as much as I love it and have lots of fun getting all messy, I don't get aroused by a solo session. I can imagine if I ever mentioned this fetish to my wife and get her involved I would definitely be turned on by a session, damn I have enough fantasies about it.
But I just got wondering if there are any others like this? That the physical act of getting messy doesn't get them aroused and find that the arousal comes from seeing who they're attracted to getting messy?
Certainly not the only one. Only ever did solo sessions as I was discovering this was a thing for me, but it's not something that I've done for 10 years or more. Much prefer to be watching what's happening live or on a screen, or administering the mess. Sometimes I'm in the mood to play with others but only very occasionally and quite particular about what I like. I'm not a completely closed book, sometimes we push my boundaries or I surprise myself with what I want. But most of the time I'd certainly classify myself as a watcher.
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Gunge1050 said: But I just got wondering if there are any others like this? That the physical act of getting messy doesn't get them aroused and find that the arousal comes from seeing who they're attracted to getting messy?
I never started in wam in a sexual context for me it wasn't till I found umd that sex and wam collided into each other. However I have used wam in everything that matters to me involving people I was able to learn how to love. For example I went to a dance with a girl and opened water bottles and threw them in the air got everyone wet and kept dancing. Wasn't thinking that no one May have appreciated it but me m bit was just in the moment. Going back to the time I was born which someone once pointed out is everyone of are first wam experience involves sex or birth which both involved liquids and insides to outsides ah I digress
I never used wam to escape to sexually but I used it to get to things that are sexual. My most memorable moments involved falling asleep in a bathtub with my clothes on after walking home from school. Or crawling in mud to then just nap in during a wam day. Or. Walking in a thunderstorm to school while not taking an umbrella on purpose.
But since being on umd many people have shown how much you can incorporate sexuality and mess into the same experience. It's in part why I never thought of wam as a "fetish" in a way I still don't. Because that implies sex to me which is never the first thing I think about when it comes to mess.
But I'm still learning about how it can both start and end that way
I remember when I first saw this scene and how immediately I could see myself doing this in a relationship. It's right after something impactful than the characters bond in water all puns intended
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The one time I wore a dress in the shower I got hard but I don't recall getting particularly turned on. I also wore a hoodie in the shower about a week ago and it didn't do anything whatsoever, just felt heavier if anything.
Watching other people get messy? Sure thing. My girlfriend wearing a dress in the shower gets me going big time. In fact, lately when we've gone it I've had a rotation between imagining her in a dress covered in whipped cream/ chocolate syrup/ walking on the beach and the dress dragging in the sand and her jumping in the pool fully clothed on the way back.
well back in my day... im old alright lol there was nothing about when i got into wam.. but now there is this fantastic committee is much easier now.. you can see so much if you want... your not alone at all